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“All the terrible things we do to ourselves and others from alcoholism to character assignation to abuse to murder come from one cause: the inability to stay present with an uncomfortable feeling in the body and seek short-term relief.” quote by Pema Chodron
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“All the terrible things we do to ourselves and others from alcoholism to character assignation to abuse to murder come from one cause: the inability to stay present with an uncomfortable feeling in the body and seek short-term relief.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Uncomfortable feelings drive harmful actions when we avoid them and seek quick relief.

In simple terms: Avoiding pain leads to harmful shortcuts.

Key Takeaway

Stay present with discomfort.

Themes

mindfulness self‑compassion addiction violence

Mood

calm empathetic

Type

inspirational practical

When to use this quote

  • stress management
  • addiction recovery
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • therapy sessions

Key Concepts

psychology bodily awareness emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you sit with discomfort?
  • What healthier coping can replace the shortcut?
A Different Perspective

Short‑term relief can feel necessary but deepens suffering.

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