What is word for good together living? Nobody shits in the…
““What is word for good together living? Nobody shits in the well?" I laughed. "Civilization?" He nodded, splaying his fingers: amusement. "Yes," he said. "Speaking with hands is civilization." "But smiling is natural," I protested. "Everyone smiles." "Natural is not civilization," Tempi said. "Cooking meat is civilization. Washing off stink is civilization." "So in Ademre you always smile with hands?" I wished I knew the gesture for dismay. "No. Smiling with face good with family. Good with some friend." "Why only family?" Tempi repeated his thumb-on-collarbone gesture again. "When you make this." He pressed his palm to the side of his face and blew air into it, making a great flatulent noise. "That is natural, but you do not make it near others. Rude. With family..." He shrugged. Amusement. "...civilization not important. More natural with family.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Civilization is defined by learned, cooperative behaviors, while natural actions are instinctive and personal.
In simple terms: Culture is learned behavior; nature is instinct.
Key Takeaway
Balance social norms with authentic expression.
Themes
culture
human behavior
authenticity
Mood
thoughtful
curious
Type
philosophical
dialogue
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- workplace etiquette
- public speaking
Key Concepts
social norms
symbolic interaction
Questions to Reflect On
- What gestures feel natural to you?
- When do you choose conformity over authenticity?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on norms may suppress individuality.