Let your mistress’s birthday be one of great terror to…
““Let your mistress’s birthday be one of great terror to you: that’s a black day when anything has to be given. However much you avoid it, she’ll still win: it’s a woman’s skill, to strip wealth from an ardent lover. A loose-robed pedlar comes to your lady: she likes to buy: and explains his prices while you’re sitting there. She’ll ask you to look, because you know what to look for: then kiss you: then ask you to buy her something there. She swears that she’ll be happy with it, for years, but she needs it now, now the price is right. If you say you haven’t the money in the house, she’ll ask for a note of hand – and you’re sorry you learnt to write. Why - she asks doesn’t she for money as if it’s her birthday, just for the cake, and how often it is her birthday, if she’s in need? Why - she weeps doesn’t she, mournfully, for a sham loss, that imaginary gem that fell from her pierced ear? They many times ask for gifts, they never give in return: you lose, and you’ll get no thanks for your loss. And ten mouths with as many tongues wouldn’t be enough for me to describe the wicked tricks of whores.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A lover warns that a woman’s birthday can be used to manipulate and extract gifts, exploiting affection and social expectations.
In simple terms: Women may exploit birthdays to demand gifts, using affection as leverage.
Key Takeaway
Beware of manipulative expectations and set clear boundaries.
Themes
manipulation
relationships
gift-giving
power dynamics
trust
Mood
cautious
reflective
skeptical
Type
advice
warning
philosophical
When to use this quote
- Romantic relationships
- family celebrations
- financial negotiations
- gift expectations
- boundary setting
Key Concepts
Psychology of love
social exchange theory
materialism
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you recognize manipulative patterns in your relationships?
- How can you balance generosity with self‑respect?
A Different Perspective
The quote assumes all women act this way, ignoring genuine affection and cultural norms.