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“I think that one not only has to make demands on the established group, but one also has to make demands on the outsider group. One has to make clear: if you want to leave, please do so. But if you want to stay here, a degree of accommodation to the Dutch outlook, Dutch manners, and a degree of…” quote by Norbert Elias
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“I think that one not only has to make demands on the established group, but one also has to make demands on the outsider group. One has to make clear: if you want to leave, please do so. But if you want to stay here, a degree of accommodation to the Dutch outlook, Dutch manners, and a degree of identification with the Netherlands will be expected of you. There is no reason why there cannot be Dutch Turks or Dutch Moroccans. But one can expect from them a degree of identification, some change of their own social identity.”

Norbert Elias

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Individuals must demand both from the established group and from outsiders, requiring mutual accommodation and identity adjustment.

In simple terms: Both sides must adjust and identify with each other.

Key Takeaway

Encourage mutual adaptation.

Themes

integration identity accommodation social policy

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

analytical policy‑oriented

When to use this quote

  • immigration policy
  • community building
  • multicultural workplaces
  • education programs

Key Concepts

social identity mutual expectations cultural assimilation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can societies foster integration without eroding cultural diversity?
  • What incentives promote mutual accommodation?
A Different Perspective

Balancing identity can cause resistance and loss of cultural heritage.

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