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“when you come across a person who appears, in relative terms as observed within your world, to be disadvantaged, the first question you have to ask is: Who am I and who do I choose to be, in relationship to that? In other words, the first question when you encounter another in any circumstance…” quote by Neale Donald Walsch
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““when you come across a person who appears, in relative terms as observed within your world, to be disadvantaged, the first question you have to ask is: Who am I and who do I choose to be, in relationship to that? In other words, the first question when you encounter another in any circumstance should always be: What do I want here? Did you hear that? Your first question, always, must be: What do I want here?—not: What does the other person want here?””

Neale Donald Walsch

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When confronting the disadvantaged, first examine your own identity and intentions before assuming others’ motives.

In simple terms: Know yourself and your goals before judging others.

Key Takeaway

Align your actions with self‑awareness and purpose.

Themes

self‑awareness intentionality empathy power dynamics

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

  • social activism
  • leadership
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

identity choice responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • What assumptions do you bring to this encounter?
  • How does your self‑image shape your choices?
A Different Perspective

May ignore the other person’s genuine needs.

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