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“A man never speaks of himself without losing something. What he says in his disfavor is always beleived, but when he commends himself, he arouses mistrust.” quote by Michel de Montaigne
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“A man never speaks of himself without losing something. What he says in his disfavor is always beleived, but when he commends himself, he arouses mistrust.”

Michel de Montaigne

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Self‑praise erodes credibility; criticism is more readily believed, leading to distrust when one boasts.

In simple terms: Boasting hurts trust; criticism is trusted.

Key Takeaway

Avoid self‑praise, be modest.

Themes

trust credibility humility

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • job interview
  • public speaking
  • personal branding
  • team meetings

Key Concepts

self‑presentation social perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does humility affect your relationships?
  • When is self‑promotion acceptable?
A Different Perspective

Self‑praise can be strategic in certain cultures.

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