Skip to content

And he loved my mother. I saw him on the last days of his…

“And he loved my mother. I saw him on the last days of his life lift that oil-scented right hand and enter its fingers into her ordered hair and rustle it free of its pins as if he had been offered velvet or the fur of a rare animal. Forever I hold that gesture. For me it was perhaps the last…” quote by Michael Ondaatje
Download Open image
““And he loved my mother. I saw him on the last days of his life lift that oil-scented right hand and enter its fingers into her ordered hair and rustle it free of its pins as if he had been offered velvet or the fur of a rare animal. Forever I hold that gesture. For me it was perhaps the last remembered pleasure belonging to him. It is the unspoiled core of whatever I know of love and family (and I have not been successful at the craft of it). Our shyness at embracing each other - it rarely happened - did not matter. I felt safe and comforted in his house.””

Michael Ondaatje

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A cherished, simple gesture can embody deep love and familial comfort, persisting beyond loss.

In simple terms: Small acts can hold profound emotional meaning.

Key Takeaway

Value and remember intimate moments.

Themes

love memory comfort

Mood

nostalgic reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • grieving
  • homecoming
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

intimacy family bonds

Questions to Reflect On

  • What gestures in your life symbolize lasting love?
  • How do we balance nostalgia with present reality?
A Different Perspective

Such memories may idealize the past, overlooking broader complexities.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet

More by Michael Ondaatje

Explore all 322 Michael Ondaatje quotes

More Embracing quotes

Browse all 224 Embracing quotes