For those who suffer disposal, the cost is their very…
““For those who suffer disposal, the cost is their very lives. For those of us who survive, there is a creeping indifference to anything other than one’s own survival, which results in increased selfishness, hardness of heart, denial—which in the long range will bring about the devaluation of self. To counter this devaluation, therefore, one flees into pride of accomplishment. Isn’t what we do the defining measure of selfhood in our society?””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Survivors of trauma may become self‑centered, using personal achievement to mask deeper self‑devaluation.
In simple terms: Survival can breed selfishness and pride as a defense against feeling worthless.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and heal the inner loss before seeking external validation.
Themes
survival
self‑devaluation
pride
compassion
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- therapy
- support groups
- personal development
- community service
Key Concepts
psychology
existentialism
self‑concept
Questions to Reflect On
- How does personal achievement hide deeper wounds?
- What practices foster genuine self‑compassion?
A Different Perspective
Self‑esteem issues may persist despite outward success.