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Maybe it’s not, in the end, the virtues of others that so…

“Maybe it’s not, in the end, the virtues of others that so wrenches our hearts as it is the sense of almost unbearably poignant recognition when we see them at their most base, in their sorrow and gluttony and foolishness. You need the virtues, too—some sort of virtues—but we don’t care about Emma…” quote by Michael Cunningham
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“Maybe it’s not, in the end, the virtues of others that so wrenches our hearts as it is the sense of almost unbearably poignant recognition when we see them at their most base, in their sorrow and gluttony and foolishness. You need the virtues, too—some sort of virtues—but we don’t care about Emma Bovary or Anna Karenina or Raskolnikov because they’re good. We care about them because they’re not admirable, because they’re us, and because great writers have forgiven them for it.”

Michael Cunningham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We are moved by flawed characters because they mirror our own imperfections, not because they are virtuous.

In simple terms: Flawed people reflect us and move us.

Key Takeaway

Embrace complexity over idealization.

Themes

human nature literature empathy

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • Therapy sessions
  • book clubs
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

Existentialism character study

Questions to Reflect On

  • Which imperfect character resonated with you?
  • How does recognizing shared flaws affect judgment?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing virtue can limit understanding of humanity.

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