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“The note in the quill was intended for the girl, and it read, 'Yes and yes and yes.' Yes I love you, yes I miss you, and yes I know and remember that you do, too. For in her last missive she had written 'No and no.' That is to say, No I do not want anyone other than you, and no I do not manage to…” quote by Meir Shalev
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““The note in the quill was intended for the girl, and it read, 'Yes and yes and yes.' Yes I love you, yes I miss you, and yes I know and remember that you do, too. For in her last missive she had written 'No and no.' That is to say, No I do not want anyone other than you, and no I do not manage to sleep at night.””

Meir Shalev

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A lover’s yearning is expressed through repeated affirmations, contrasting with a previous denial, highlighting desire and emotional conflict.

In simple terms: Love is expressed with repeated “yes”.

Key Takeaway

Embrace honest communication of feelings.

Themes

love communication longing conflict

Mood

hopeful intense

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationship
  • letter writing
  • conflict resolution
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

affirmation rejection emotional intimacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does repeated “yes” reveal about the speaker’s vulnerability?
  • How can one balance desire with respect for another’s autonomy?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on affirmation may ignore nuanced emotions or boundaries.

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