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“It is well enough, when one is talking to a friend, to lodge in an odd word by way of counsel now and then; but there is something mighty irksome in its staring upon one in a letter, where one ought to see only kind words and friendly remembrances.” quote by Mary Lamb
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“It is well enough, when one is talking to a friend, to lodge in an odd word by way of counsel now and then; but there is something mighty irksome in its staring upon one in a letter, where one ought to see only kind words and friendly remembrances.”

Mary Lamb

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Written words can feel intrusive compared to spoken counsel, making letters seem harsh.

In simple terms: Letters can feel harsher than spoken advice.

Key Takeaway

Choose words carefully in writing.

Themes

communication friendship tone

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice observational

When to use this quote

  • personal letters
  • email correspondence
  • friendship advice

Key Concepts

interpersonal dynamics language perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does medium affect perceived kindness?
  • Can you soften written criticism?
A Different Perspective

Written tone may be misinterpreted without vocal cues.

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