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“There was an unwritten rule that hearing people who knew sign should identify themselves whenever they were around Deaf people. Otherwise the Deaf people might be carrying on an extremely private conversation, assuming no one around them could understand them. To not identify yourself was a…” quote by Mary Carter
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““There was an unwritten rule that hearing people who knew sign should identify themselves whenever they were around Deaf people. Otherwise the Deaf people might be carrying on an extremely private conversation, assuming no one around them could understand them. To not identify yourself was a betrayal of trust.””

Mary Carter

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote stresses the importance of hearing individuals who know sign language revealing their ability to understand, to respect Deaf privacy and trust.

In simple terms: Hearing allies should identify themselves to avoid breaching Deaf trust.

Key Takeaway

Always disclose your signing ability when near Deaf people.

Themes

trust communication inclusion

Mood

respectful empathetic

Type

ethical social.

When to use this quote

  • workplace meetings
  • social gatherings
  • educational settings
  • online video calls

Key Concepts

social etiquette disability rights privacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your disclosure affect Deaf comfort?
  • What steps can you take to remember to identify yourself?
A Different Perspective

If you forget to identify yourself, it can unintentionally alienate Deaf participants.

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