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When an opponent in the gymnasium gashes us with his nails…

“When an opponent in the gymnasium gashes us with his nails or bruises our head in a collision, we do not protest or take offence, and we do not suspect him ever afterwards of malicious intent. However, we do regard him with a wary eye; not in enmity or suspicion, yet good-temperedly keeping our…” quote by Marcus Aurelius
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““When an opponent in the gymnasium gashes us with his nails or bruises our head in a collision, we do not protest or take offence, and we do not suspect him ever afterwards of malicious intent. However, we do regard him with a wary eye; not in enmity or suspicion, yet good-temperedly keeping our distance. So let it be, too, at other times in life; let us agree to overlook a great many things in those who are, as it were, our fellow-contestants. A simple avoidance, as I have said, is always open to us, without either suspicion or ill will.””

Marcus Aurelius

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We should respond to accidental harm without anger, maintaining distance but not hostility, and practice forgiveness toward fellow participants in life.

In simple terms: Treat accidental injuries calmly, keep distance, avoid grudges.

Key Takeaway

Practice patience and forgiveness.

Themes

forgiveness conflict resolution humility

Mood

calm thoughtful

Type

philosophical practical

When to use this quote

  • sports injuries
  • workplace mishaps
  • family disputes
  • public interactions

Key Concepts

Stoicism ethical behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance caution with compassion?
  • When is distance insufficient?
A Different Perspective

Ignoring repeated harmful behavior may enable it.

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