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“Marriage is therefore not an ordinary contract, since in terminating it, the two parties cannot return themselves to the same state they were in before entering into it. And if the contract is voluntary at the time it is entered into, it can no longer be voluntary, and almost never is, at the time…” quote by Louis de Bonald
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““Marriage is therefore not an ordinary contract, since in terminating it, the two parties cannot return themselves to the same state they were in before entering into it. And if the contract is voluntary at the time it is entered into, it can no longer be voluntary, and almost never is, at the time of its termination, since the party which manifests the desire to dissolve it takes all liberty from the other party to refuse, and has only too many means to force its consent.””

Louis de Bonald

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage creates a binding bond that cannot be simply undone; ending it imposes constraints on both parties, limiting true voluntary choice at dissolution.

In simple terms: Marriage ties people together, making separation hard.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the seriousness before committing.

Themes

commitment law relationships

Mood

reflective serious

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • divorce negotiations
  • marital counseling
  • legal contracts

Key Concepts

social contract individual autonomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you ensure mutual consent in long‑term commitments?
  • Can a contract ever be truly voluntary at its end?
A Different Perspective

Consent may be compromised under pressure.

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