Wrongs are often forgiven, but contempt never is. Our…
“Wrongs are often forgiven, but contempt never is. Our pride remembers it forever. It implies a discovery of weakness, which we are more careful to conceal than a crime. Many a man will confess his crimes to a friend; but I never knew a man that would tell his silly weaknesses to his most intimate one.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
People tend to forgive actions but hold lasting contempt for perceived moral failings, especially those that expose personal weakness.
In simple terms: Forgiveness is easier for deeds than for hidden flaws.
Key Takeaway
Guard your vulnerabilities.
Themes
trust
pride
forgiveness
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
- leadership
- self‑disclosure
Key Concepts
psychology
social perception
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you reveal your weaknesses to trusted others?
- How does pride affect forgiveness?
A Different Perspective
People may still judge hidden flaws harshly despite forgiveness of actions.