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Our self-love is mortified, when we think our opinions…

“Our self-love is mortified, when we think our opinions, and even our tastes, customs, and dresses, either arraigned or condemned; as, on the contrary, it is tickled and flattered by approbation.” quote by Lord Chesterfield
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“Our self-love is mortified, when we think our opinions, and even our tastes, customs, and dresses, either arraigned or condemned; as, on the contrary, it is tickled and flattered by approbation.”

Lord Chesterfield

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Self‑esteem is fragile when judged by others, yet it thrives on approval and praise.

In simple terms: Self‑love suffers from criticism but enjoys praise.

Key Takeaway

Seek validation wisely, nurture inner confidence.

Themes

self‑esteem social judgment approval criticism

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • public speaking
  • social media
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

psychology of self‑image social influence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What internal standards can you set?
  • How do you balance external feedback with self‑worth?
A Different Perspective

Overreliance on external approval can undermine autonomy.

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