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“If you wish particularly to gain the good graces and affection of certain people, men or women, try to discover their most striking merit, if they have one, and their dominant weakness, for every one has his own, then do justice to the one, and a little more than justice to the other.” quote by Lord Chesterfield
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“If you wish particularly to gain the good graces and affection of certain people, men or women, try to discover their most striking merit, if they have one, and their dominant weakness, for every one has his own, then do justice to the one, and a little more than justice to the other.”

Lord Chesterfield

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Understanding both strengths and weaknesses lets you treat people fairly, giving extra kindness where they lack it.

In simple terms: Balance fairness with extra kindness toward weaknesses.

Key Takeaway

Give a little more than justice to each person.

Themes

fairness empathy social intelligence

Mood

thoughtful considerate

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • leadership
  • team building
  • conflict resolution
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

psychology ethics relationship management

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you identify a person's true strengths?
  • When is extra kindness appropriate?
A Different Perspective

People may resist or misinterpret extra kindness as favoritism.

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