Skip to content

For my entire life I longed for love. I knew it was not…

“For my entire life I longed for love. I knew it was not right for me — as a girl and later as a woman — to want or expect it, but I did, and this unjustified desire has been at the root of every problem I have experienced in my life.” quote by Lisa See
Download Open image
“For my entire life I longed for love. I knew it was not right for me — as a girl and later as a woman — to want or expect it, but I did, and this unjustified desire has been at the root of every problem I have experienced in my life.”

Lisa See

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A lifelong, forbidden longing for love fuels many personal struggles and missteps.

In simple terms: Unrequited love causes repeated problems.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and heal unhealthy love expectations.

Themes

love self‑sabotage identity growth

Mood

reflective somber

Type

personal psychological

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • personal therapy
  • creative writing
  • support groups
  • mindfulness practice

Key Concepts

attachment theory psychology self‑esteem

Questions to Reflect On

  • What unmet needs drive your love longing?
  • How can you nurture self‑love instead?
A Different Perspective

Desire for love may also inspire positive connection if redirected.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet

More by Lisa See

Explore all 178 Lisa See quotes

More Desire quotes

Browse all 15,155 Desire quotes