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Stepan Arkadyich smiled. He knew so well this feeling of…

“Stepan Arkadyich smiled. He knew so well this feeling of Levin's, knew that for him all the girls in the world were divided into two sorts: one sort was all the girls in the world except her, and these girls had all human weaknesses and were very ordinary girls; the other sort was her alone, with…” quote by Leo Tolstoy
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““Stepan Arkadyich smiled. He knew so well this feeling of Levin's, knew that for him all the girls in the world were divided into two sorts: one sort was all the girls in the world except her, and these girls had all human weaknesses and were very ordinary girls; the other sort was her alone, with no weaknesses and higher than everything human.””

Leo Tolstoy

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He distinguishes an idealized beloved from ordinary others, seeing her as flawless and transcendent.

In simple terms: He sees one woman as perfect, all others as ordinary.

Key Takeaway

Recognize idealization and seek realistic love.

Themes

love idealization perception humanity

Mood

nostalgic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • dating
  • friendship
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

romantic idealism psychology subjective reality

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you place anyone on a pedestal?
  • How does idealization affect relationships?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing a partner can blind you to real connections.

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