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“He was very well aware that he ran no risk of being ridiculous in the eyes of Betsy or any other fashionable people. He was very well aware that in their eyes the position of an unsuccessful lover of a girl, or of any woman free to marry, might be ridiculous. But the position of a man pursuing a…” quote by Leo Tolstoy
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““He was very well aware that he ran no risk of being ridiculous in the eyes of Betsy or any other fashionable people. He was very well aware that in their eyes the position of an unsuccessful lover of a girl, or of any woman free to marry, might be ridiculous. But the position of a man pursuing a married woman, and, staking his life on drawing her into adultery, has something fine and grand about it, and can never be ridiculous; and so it was with a proud and gay smile under his mustaches that he lowered the opera glass and looked at his cousin.””

Leo Tolstoy

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A man’s reckless pursuit of a married woman is seen as daring and noble by him, despite societal condemnation of such adultery.

In simple terms: Risky love is glorified by the lover.

Key Takeaway

Question motives before chasing forbidden love.

Themes

love risk societal norms

Mood

critical thought‑provoking

Type

literary ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • ethical debates
  • literary analysis

Key Concepts

ethical dilemma romantic idealism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is it ever justifiable to defy social morals for love?
  • What are the consequences of romanticizing infidelity?
A Different Perspective

Such pursuits can cause deep harm to all involved.

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