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“The one thing that is truly monstrous is the idea of another person being unreachable. I think this is what lies behind our fear of people we imagine to be evil: the belief that they are wholly beyond our reach, beyond our appeal and our compassion, because they have alienated themselves…” quote by Leah Hager Cohen
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““The one thing that is truly monstrous is the idea of another person being unreachable. I think this is what lies behind our fear of people we imagine to be evil: the belief that they are wholly beyond our reach, beyond our appeal and our compassion, because they have alienated themselves completely from the rest of humanity and thereby rendered themselves inhuman. . . . But there is mutuality involved. For us to accept another person’s alienation is simultaneously to alienate ourselves from him—to become complicit. When we decide to accept that another person is unreachable, we may cut him off, send him away, but we have set ourselves adrift as well.””

Leah Hager Cohen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Seeing people as completely unreachable makes us alienate them and ourselves, reinforcing fear and loss of compassion.

In simple terms: Treating others as unreachable harms both sides.

Key Takeaway

Recognize shared humanity to bridge gaps.

Themes

empathy psychology social connection fear compassion

Mood

thoughtful empathetic inquisitive

Type

philosophical psychological social

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • conflict resolution
  • community building
  • education
  • media discourse

Key Concepts

otherness mutuality alienation humanity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we foster genuine connection with those we deem alien?
  • What role does societal structure play in perceived unreachable?
A Different Perspective

May overlook structural barriers that keep people distant.

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