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Woe to those who get what they desire. Fulfillment leaves…

“Woe to those who get what they desire. Fulfillment leaves an empty space where your old self used to be, the self that pines and broods and reflects. You furnish a dream house in your imagination, but how startling and final when that dream house is your own address. What is left to you?…” quote by Laurie Colwin
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“Woe to those who get what they desire. Fulfillment leaves an empty space where your old self used to be, the self that pines and broods and reflects. You furnish a dream house in your imagination, but how startling and final when that dream house is your own address. What is left to you? Surrounded by what you wanted, you feel a sense of amputation. The feelings you were used to abiding with are useless. The conditions you established for your happiness are met. That youthful light-headed feeling whose sharp side is much like hunger is of no more use to you.”

Laurie Colwin

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Achieving a long‑desired goal can leave a void where the yearning self once lived, creating emptiness despite external success.

In simple terms: Success may feel hollow without the longing that drove it.

Key Takeaway

Seek meaning beyond the achievement.

Themes

desire emptiness identity fulfillment

Mood

melancholic thoughtful

Type

reflective philosophical

When to use this quote

  • career success
  • relationship milestones
  • personal goals
  • post‑achievement reflection

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What part of the journey gave you purpose?
  • Can you find new aspirations after reaching a goal?
A Different Perspective

Happiness often depends on process, not just outcome.

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