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“Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a…” quote by Laura Vanderkam
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““Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently.””

Laura Vanderkam

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Reframe “no time” as “not a priority” to reveal choices and shift behavior.

In simple terms: Time is a choice, not a lack.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize consciously.

Themes

time management mindset priorities

Mood

reflective motivational

Type

self‑help practical

When to use this quote

  • daily tasks
  • health appointments
  • career decisions

Key Concepts

behavioral economics self‑regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • Which low‑priority tasks can you drop?
  • How does labeling affect motivation?
A Different Perspective

Changing language may feel uncomfortable and require habit change.

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