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“Is growin' up always miserable?" Sonny asked. "Nobody seems to enjoy it much." "Oh, it ain't necessarily misearble," Sam replied. "About eighty percent of the time, I guess." They were silent again, Sam the Lion thinking of the lovely, spritely girl he had once led into the water, right there…” quote by Larry McMurtry
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““Is growin' up always miserable?" Sonny asked. "Nobody seems to enjoy it much." "Oh, it ain't necessarily misearble," Sam replied. "About eighty percent of the time, I guess." They were silent again, Sam the Lion thinking of the lovely, spritely girl he had once led into the water, right there, where they were sitting. "We ought to go to a real fishin' tank next year," Sam said finally. "It don't do to think about things like that too much. If she were here now I'd probably be crazy again in about five minutes. Ain't that ridiculous?" A half-hour later, when they had gathered up the gear and were on the way to town, he answered his own question. "It ain't really, " he said. "Being crazy about a woman like her's always the right thing to do. Being a decrepit old bag of bones is what's ridiculous.””

Larry McMurtry

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker reflects on the paradox of aging and love, suggesting that passion remains valuable even as the body declines.

In simple terms: Love stays important despite aging.

Key Takeaway

Embrace love, accept aging.

Themes

aging love paradox passion mortality

Mood

reflective bittersweet contemplative

Type

literary philosophical dialogue

When to use this quote

  • relationship advice
  • midlife crisis
  • personal reflection
  • accepting aging
  • seeking meaning

Key Concepts

Existentialism human desire loneliness

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you value love over health?
  • How does aging change your view of passion?
A Different Perspective

The view may romanticize unhealthy obsession, ignoring practical concerns.

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