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“Yes, I had turned a deaf ear to my girlhood with my silence. It was a time when I was unable to love myself, so I had to go from fifteen straight to twenty. Whether I started walking out of my past or walked into it from the present, my footprints always came to a stop in the same place. I would…” quote by Kyung-Sook Shin
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““Yes, I had turned a deaf ear to my girlhood with my silence. It was a time when I was unable to love myself, so I had to go from fifteen straight to twenty. Whether I started walking out of my past or walked into it from the present, my footprints always came to a stop in the same place. I would go from being fifteen to twenty, or go from being twenty to fifteen, If I set out from the past, I had to ignore sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen, and skip straight to twenty. If I set out from the present, I had to ignore nineteen, eighteen, seventeen, sixteen, and skip straight to fifteen. Those years always remained vacant, like naked sunlight, like the well with its bottom completely covered.””

Kyung-Sook Shin

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator feels stuck between past and present, skipping years, leaving emotional gaps that feel empty.

In simple terms: Skipping years leaves emotional emptiness.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge each life stage to heal.

Themes

identity time self‑acceptance

Mood

thoughtful melancholic

Type

literary reflective

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • personal reflection
  • life coaching
  • storytelling

Key Concepts

psychology memory narrative therapy

Questions to Reflect On

  • Which years feel missing in your life?
  • How can you integrate past and present?
A Different Perspective

Skipping may ignore needed growth.

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