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“By seeing the multitude of people around it, by being busied with all sorts of worldly affairs, by being wise to the ways of the world, such a person forgets himself, in a divine sense forgets his own name, dares not believe in himself, finds being himself too risky, finds it much easier and safer…” quote by Kierkegaard
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““By seeing the multitude of people around it, by being busied with all sorts of worldly affairs, by being wise to the ways of the world, such a person forgets himself, in a divine sense forgets his own name, dares not believe in himself, finds being himself too risky, finds it much easier and safer to be like the others, to become a copy, a number, along with the crowd. Now this form of despair goes practically unnoticed in the world. Precisely by losing oneself in this way, such a person gains all that is required for a flawless performance in everyday life, yes, for making a great success out of life. Here there is no dragging of the feet, no difficulty with his self and its infinitizing, he is ground smooth as a pebble, as exchangeable as a coin of the realm. Far from anyone thinking him to be in despair, he is just what a human being ought to be. Naturally, the world has generally no understanding of what is truly horrifying.””

Kierkegaard

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People lose their authentic self by conforming to societal expectations, achieving external success but internal emptiness.

In simple terms: Conformity trades authenticity for success.

Key Takeaway

Seek authenticity over approval.

Themes

authenticity conformity existential angst success identity

Mood

reflective melancholic thoughtful

Type

philosophical existential

When to use this quote

  • career advancement
  • social media presence
  • peer pressure
  • personal relationships
  • creative work

Key Concepts

Existentialism selfhood social pressure

Questions to Reflect On

  • What aspects of your life feel performed rather than lived?
  • How can you honor your true self while navigating societal demands?
A Different Perspective

External success may mask inner loss of self.

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