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“What do you do when you are really, really sad?" When you are full of dread, is what she really meant. Godbee exhaled through her nose, making a whistling sound. "Hmm. When I'm genuinely suffering I try to think of someone worse off than I am. And then, if it happens to be someone I know and I'm…” quote by Kevin Henkes
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““What do you do when you are really, really sad?" When you are full of dread, is what she really meant. Godbee exhaled through her nose, making a whistling sound. "Hmm. When I'm genuinely suffering I try to think of someone worse off than I am. And then, if it happens to be someone I know and I'm feeling particularly saintly, I try to do something nice for him or her.””

Kevin Henkes

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When deeply sad, compare your suffering to someone worse, then act kindly toward them to gain perspective and alleviate pain.

In simple terms: Compare to worse off, then help them.

Key Takeaway

Find perspective, help others.

Themes

empathy coping perspective kindness mental health self‑compassion

Mood

hopeful compassionate inspirational

Type

motivational psychological practical

When to use this quote

  • personal crisis
  • mental health
  • support networks
  • self‑help

Key Concepts

psychology emotional regulation altruism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who can you help when you feel low?
  • How does empathy shift your mood?
A Different Perspective

Helping others may not always be possible or appropriate.

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