The work that I've been trying to do with violence against…
“The work that I've been trying to do with violence against women and children comes from seeing quite a bit of violence. I just think it's important that we try to help the young boys who are watching the fathers do it - because if it's OK for the fathers to do it, then these young boys are watching their dads and going, well, nothing's happening to them, so maybe this is OK. But actually, this violence needs to stop in the sandpits.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Violence is perpetuated when children observe it at home, so early intervention with boys is crucial to break the cycle.
In simple terms: Kids copy what they see; stop violence early.
Key Takeaway
Teach respect to boys early.
Themes
gender violence
parental influence
prevention
boys' socialization
Mood
concerned
hopeful
Type
advocacy
educational
When to use this quote
- schools
- community programs
- family counseling
- media campaigns
Key Concepts
cycle of abuse
social learning theory
toxic masculinity
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we engage fathers in anti‑violence education?
- What early signs indicate a boy may normalize aggression?
A Different Perspective
Changing attitudes takes time and broader cultural shifts.