The desire to be liked is acceptable in real life but very…
“The desire to be liked is acceptable in real life but very problematic in fiction. Pleasantness is the enemy of good fiction. I try to write on the premise that no one is going to read my work. Because there's this terrible impulse to grovel before the reader, to make them like you, to write with the reader in mind in that way. It prevents you doing work that is ugly or upsetting or difficult. The temptation is to not be true to what you want to write and to be considerate or amusing instead. I'm always trying to fight against the impulse to make my readers like me.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The author argues that prioritizing likability in fiction compromises artistic honesty, urging writers to resist the urge to please readers and instead embrace challenging, truthful storytelling.
In simple terms: Avoid writing to please readers; embrace difficult truth.
Write honestly, not for approval.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- novel drafting
- editing
- author workshops
- publishing decisions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can writers balance honesty with audience engagement?
- What strategies help resist the desire to please?
Readers may still reject honest work, affecting commercial success.