Oh, Kathleen!" sighed Nancy as the two went into the…
““Oh, Kathleen!" sighed Nancy as the two went into the kitchen together. "Isn't mother the most interesting 'scolder' you ever listened to? I love to hear her do it, especially when somebody else is getting it. When it's I, I grow smaller and smaller, curling myself up like a little worm. Then when she has finished I squirm to the door and wriggle out. Other mothers say: 'If you don't, I shall tell your father!' 'Do as I tell you, and ask no questions.' 'I never heard of such behavior in my life!' 'Haven't you any sense of propriety?' 'If this happens again I shall have to do something desperate.' 'Leave the room at once,' and so on; but mother sets you to thinking." "Mother doesn't really scold," Kathleen objected. "No, but she shows you how wrong you are, just the same...””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Children experience mixed feelings of intimidation and fascination when mothers discipline, learning boundaries through indirect correction.
In simple terms: Mothers' scolding teaches lessons indirectly.
Key Takeaway
Observe how discipline shapes behavior and self‑esteem.
Themes
family
discipline
learning
growth
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- parent‑child interactions
- school settings
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
child development
parenting
communication
Questions to Reflect On
- How do children interpret indirect correction?
- When does discipline become harmful?
A Different Perspective
Discipline may cause anxiety or resentment if not balanced with empathy.