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I don't remember the house so well as the barn, and…

“I don't remember the house so well as the barn, and remember the barn less than the creek, and the creek less than an apple tree my brother and sister would climb to get into or out of their bedrooms. I couldn't climb up, because I couldn't reach the first branch from the bottom, so about the time…” quote by Karen Joy Fowler
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““I don't remember the house so well as the barn, and remember the barn less than the creek, and the creek less than an apple tree my brother and sister would climb to get into or out of their bedrooms. I couldn't climb up, because I couldn't reach the first branch from the bottom, so about the time I turned four, I went upstairs and climbed down the tree instead. I broke my collarbone and you could have killed yourself, my mother said, which would have been true if I'd fallen from the upstairs. But I made it almost the whole way down, which no one seemed to notice. What have you learned? my father asked, and I didn't have the words then, but, in retrospect, the lesson seemed to be that what you accomplish will never matter so much as where you fail.””

Karen Joy Fowler

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A childhood accident taught that the significance lies not in achievement but in the experience of failure.

In simple terms: Failure matters more than success.

Key Takeaway

Embrace failure as a learning opportunity.

Themes

failure learning perspective

Mood

reflective inspirational

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • education
  • personal growth
  • risk taking

Key Concepts

psychology storytelling

Questions to Reflect On

  • What failure taught you the most?
  • How do you view success after a setback?
A Different Perspective

Success can also be valuable.

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