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“But does a decent man make promises just to please a woman? Isn't it more honest to refuse to?" "I don't like that sort of honesty. It's not honesty, it's lack of steadiness.” quote by Jun'ichirō Tanizaki
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““But does a decent man make promises just to please a woman? Isn't it more honest to refuse to?" "I don't like that sort of honesty. It's not honesty, it's lack of steadiness.””

Jun'ichirō Tanizaki

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A man wonders if promises made to please a woman lack honesty, suggesting true integrity may require refusal.

In simple terms: Honesty may mean saying no.

Key Takeaway

Value sincerity over appeasement.

Themes

integrity gender dynamics communication

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • business negotiations
  • social etiquette

Key Concepts

ethical honesty relationship expectations personal boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is refusal the honest choice?
  • How do cultural norms affect promise‑making?
A Different Perspective

May cause conflict or hurt feelings.

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