Skip to content

Just so you know, I realize that what happened is not in…

“Just so you know, I realize that what happened is not in any way okay, but I think we're going to have to pretend like it is. Because it wasn't okay and never will be. We will power through it; I will continue to power through it-all the stagnant, soul-crushing grief-but it will never be okay that…” quote by Julie Buxbaum
Download Open image
““Just so you know, I realize that what happened is not in any way okay, but I think we're going to have to pretend like it is. Because it wasn't okay and never will be. We will power through it; I will continue to power through it-all the stagnant, soul-crushing grief-but it will never be okay that my mom is not here.””

Julie Buxbaum

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A grieving person acknowledges the impossibility of being okay after loss, yet commits to enduring the pain and moving forward despite its permanence.

In simple terms: Accepts grief’s permanence and resolves to persist.

Key Takeaway

Allow grief, keep living.

Themes

grief acceptance resilience

Mood

empathetic reflective

Type

personal inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • support groups
  • personal reflection
  • daily routines
  • memorial practices

Key Concepts

psychology bereavement coping strategies

Questions to Reflect On

  • What daily actions help sustain hope after loss?
  • How can we honor the departed while living?
A Different Perspective

Grief may never be “okay,” but life continues.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet

More by Julie Buxbaum

Explore all 133 Julie Buxbaum quotes

More Grief quotes

Browse all 8,012 Grief quotes