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“Our lack of originality is something we usefully forget as we hunch over our—to us—ever-fascinating lives. My friend M., leaving his wife for a younger woman, used to complain, “People tell me it’s a cliché. But it doesn’t feel like a cliché to me.” Yet it was, and is. As all our lives would…” quote by Julian Barnes
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““Our lack of originality is something we usefully forget as we hunch over our—to us—ever-fascinating lives. My friend M., leaving his wife for a younger woman, used to complain, “People tell me it’s a cliché. But it doesn’t feel like a cliché to me.” Yet it was, and is. As all our lives would prove, if we could see them from a greater distance—from the viewpoint, say, of that higher creature imagined by Einstein. ””

Julian Barnes

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We often overlook how our lives repeat familiar patterns, mistaking clichés for originality, because we view them only up close.

In simple terms: We forget our lives are repetitive clichés.

Key Takeaway

Recognize patterns to gain perspective.

Themes

self‑awareness repetition perspective

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • career decisions
  • creative work
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How might stepping back change your view of daily routines?
  • Can recognizing a cliché free you from its grip?
A Different Perspective

Clichés can still hold personal truth despite being overused.

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