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“Miss Manners’ mother always told her to travel either first or third class, but never second, when crossing. (Not crossing class lines, silly; crossing the Atlantic Ocean, in the days when that was done properly, with bouillon at eleven on the promenade deck and tea at five in the salon.) In first…” quote by Judith Martin
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““Miss Manners’ mother always told her to travel either first or third class, but never second, when crossing. (Not crossing class lines, silly; crossing the Atlantic Ocean, in the days when that was done properly, with bouillon at eleven on the promenade deck and tea at five in the salon.) In first class, in those days, you had luxury; in third class, you had fun. This is the proper distribution of the world’s blessings. In second class, you had neither. Naturally, then, someone invented the one-class ship, where the advantages of second class could be enjoyed by all, which is probably why we have those overanxious things called airplanes for crossings these days. You””

Judith Martin

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The anecdote uses travel class metaphors to illustrate that extremes offer distinct benefits, while the middle lacks both, prompting innovation to combine advantages.

In simple terms: Avoid the middle ground.

Key Takeaway

Seek balanced solutions.

Themes

social class travel innovation

Mood

thoughtful creative

Type

cultural inspirational

When to use this quote

  • transport
  • education
  • product development

Key Concepts

sociology economics design

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we blend extremes?
  • When is a middle path preferable?
A Different Perspective

Middle options can be viable with nuance.

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