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“I can not help it; as I draw near to you, you, in your turn will draw near to others, and learn the rapture of that cruelty, which yet is love; so, for a while, seek to know no more of me and mine, but trust me with all your loving spirit.” quote by Joseph Sheridan Le Fanu
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“I can not help it; as I draw near to you, you, in your turn will draw near to others, and learn the rapture of that cruelty, which yet is love; so, for a while, seek to know no more of me and mine, but trust me with all your loving spirit.”

Joseph Sheridan Le Fanu

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Intimacy can become cruel, yet love persists through shared vulnerability and mutual understanding.

In simple terms: Love can be harsh but remains through closeness.

Key Takeaway

Embrace openness while recognizing potential pain.

Themes

love vulnerability cruelty trust

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • therapy
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

human connection emotional intimacy psychology literary theme

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you trust others fully?
  • How do you balance love and self‑protection?
A Different Perspective

The passage romanticizes suffering, ignoring healthy boundaries.

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