Before you give advice, that is to say advice which you…
“Before you give advice, that is to say advice which you have not been asked to give, it is well to put to yourself two questions - namely, what is your motive for giving it, and what is it likely to be worth? If these questions were always asked, and honestly answered, there would be less advice given.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The quote advises self‑reflection before giving unsolicited advice, questioning motive and value to reduce unnecessary counsel.
In simple terms: Consider motive and worth before offering advice you weren’t asked for.
Key Takeaway
Reflect before advising unsolicited.
Themes
advice
self‑reflection
motivation
ethics
communication
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
guideline
reflection
When to use this quote
- counseling
- mentoring
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
moral philosophy
interpersonal dynamics
decision making
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives you to advise?
- How useful is your advice to the other?
A Different Perspective
Unasked advice can be intrusive.