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How to Make a Cuckold out of God by Fasting And when God…

“How to Make a Cuckold out of God by Fasting And when God sees this, he responds. He acts. He rewards. What is the “repayment” or the “reward” that Jesus promises from the Father in these verses? In a perverse way, one might even wonder if the reward God promises is “the praise of men”—as if God…” quote by John Piper
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““How to Make a Cuckold out of God by Fasting And when God sees this, he responds. He acts. He rewards. What is the “repayment” or the “reward” that Jesus promises from the Father in these verses? In a perverse way, one might even wonder if the reward God promises is “the praise of men”—as if God said, Since you did not seek it by public fasting but looked to me, I will give you this longed-for wish of human praise. If we hoped for this, our fasting would make a cuckold out of God. This is what James 4:3–4 makes clear. James pictures prayer as a petition to our heavenly husband. Then he ponders the possibility that we would actually ask our husband to pay for our visit to the prostitute. “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions. You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God?” The word “adulterous” is the key here. Why are we called “adulterous people” in praying for something to spend on our pleasures? Because God is our husband and the “world” is a prostitute luring us to give affections to her that belong only to God. This is how subtle the sin of worldliness can be. It can emerge not against prayer, but in prayer—and fasting.””

John Piper

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The passage warns that seeking selfish rewards through religious practices corrupts worship and aligns believers with worldly desires rather than divine purpose.

In simple terms: Seeking personal gain in prayer leads to spiritual adultery.

Key Takeaway

Align motives with God's will, not personal ambition.

Themes

faith prayer worldliness adultery motivation

Mood

reflective serious

Type

theological expository

When to use this quote

  • personal fasting
  • prayer focus
  • church teaching
  • spiritual counseling

Key Concepts

theology spiritual integrity selfishness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What motivates your prayer?
  • How do you discern God’s purpose versus personal desire?
A Different Perspective

The interpretation may overlook other biblical perspectives on fasting and reward.

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