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“When a couple gets to the last stage, one or both partners may have an affair. But an affair is usually a symptom of a dying marriage, not the cause. The end of that marriage could have been predicted long before either spouse strayed.” quote by John M. Gottman
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“When a couple gets to the last stage, one or both partners may have an affair. But an affair is usually a symptom of a dying marriage, not the cause. The end of that marriage could have been predicted long before either spouse strayed.”

John M. Gottman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Affairs often signal deeper marital decay rather than causing it; underlying issues precede infidelity.

In simple terms: Affairs are symptoms, not causes, of a failing marriage.

Key Takeaway

Address core relationship issues early.

Themes

marriage infidelity communication prevention

Mood

concerned hopeful

Type

advice relationship

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • pre‑marital workshops
  • relationship check‑ins

Key Concepts

relationship dynamics psychology conflict resolution

Questions to Reflect On

  • What early signs indicated the marriage was failing?
  • How can couples strengthen connection before crises?
A Different Perspective

Focusing solely on affairs may overlook other factors like external stress.

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