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The wooing of those days was prompt and practical. There…

“The wooing of those days was prompt and practical. There was no time for the gradual approaches of an idler and more conventional age. It is related of one Stout, one of the legendary Nimrods of Illinois, who was well and frequently married, that he had one unfailing formula of courtship. He…” quote by John Hay
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““The wooing of those days was prompt and practical. There was no time for the gradual approaches of an idler and more conventional age. It is related of one Stout, one of the legendary Nimrods of Illinois, who was well and frequently married, that he had one unfailing formula of courtship. He always promised the ladies whose hearts he was besieging that "they should live in the timber where they could pick up their own firewood.””

John Hay

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He advocated swift, practical courtship, offering women independence through self‑sufficiency rather than idle romance.

In simple terms: Fast, practical romance with self‑reliance.

Key Takeaway

Offer independence, not idle promises.

Themes

courtship independence practicality

Mood

playful reflective

Type

advice historical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage proposals
  • relationship advice

Key Concepts

self‑sufficiency gender roles social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does self‑reliance affect romantic dynamics?
  • Is practicality enough for lasting love?
A Different Perspective

May overlook emotional depth and mutual partnership.

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