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“Love is the mystery between two people, not the identity. We were at the opposite poles of humanity. Lily was humanity bound to duty, unable to choose, suffering at the mercy of social ideals. Humanity both crucified and marching toward the cross. And I was free, I was Peter three times the…” quote by John Fowles
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““Love is the mystery between two people, not the identity. We were at the opposite poles of humanity. Lily was humanity bound to duty, unable to choose, suffering at the mercy of social ideals. Humanity both crucified and marching toward the cross. And I was free, I was Peter three times the renounce, determined to survive whatever the cost. I still see her face, her face staring, staring into the darkness as if she were trying to gaze herself into another world. It was as if we were locked in a torture chamber still in love, yet chained to opposite walls. Facing each other for eternity, but for eternity unable to touch. Of course, as men always will, I tried to extract some hope from her that she would wait for me, not judge me too quickly, such things. But she stopped me with a look, a look I shall never forget. Because it was almost one of hatred. And hatred in her face was like spite in the Virgin Mary's. It reversed the entire order of nature.””

John Fowles

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A love that is intense yet impossible, where personal duty and societal expectations keep lovers apart, turning affection into suffering.

In simple terms: Impossible love caused by duty and society.

Key Takeaway

Accept limits, seek authentic connection.

Themes

love duty societal pressure loneliness conflict

Mood

melancholic reflective intense

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • family expectations
  • personal growth
  • artistic expression

Key Concepts

existentialism tragic romance psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can love survive without personal autonomy?
  • How do societal roles shape personal relationships?
A Different Perspective

Love may be beautiful but can become a prison when external forces dominate.

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