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“I know what it's like when people go away. It's agony for a week, then painful for a week, then you begin to forget, and then it seems as it never happened, it happened to someone else, and you start shrugging. You say, dingo, it's life, that's the way the things are. Stupid things like that. As…” quote by John Fowles The Magus
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““I know what it's like when people go away. It's agony for a week, then painful for a week, then you begin to forget, and then it seems as it never happened, it happened to someone else, and you start shrugging. You say, dingo, it's life, that's the way the things are. Stupid things like that. As if you haven't really lost something for ever.””

John Fowles The Magus

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Grief fades in stages, eventually feeling detached, as if the loss never occurred.

In simple terms: Loss feels distant over time, like it never happened.

Key Takeaway

Accept that healing is a gradual, uneven process.

Themes

grief memory detachment

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • bereavement
  • long‑term relationships
  • personal loss

Key Concepts

psychology temporal perception emotional coping

Questions to Reflect On

  • What coping strategies help sustain memory?
  • How can we honor loss while moving forward?
A Different Perspective

May minimize the depth of ongoing sorrow.

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