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I do not love a man, except I hate his vices, because…

“I do not love a man, except I hate his vices, because those vices are the enemies, and the destruction of that friend whom I love.” quote by John Donne
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“I do not love a man, except I hate his vices, because those vices are the enemies, and the destruction of that friend whom I love.”

John Donne

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Loving a friend is impossible while despising their harmful habits, which threaten the bond.

In simple terms: Love is hindered by hated vices.

Key Takeaway

Address the vices, not the person.

Themes

friendship love morality

Mood

conflicted thoughtful

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

ethics human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What vices strain your friendships?
  • Can you love without condemning?
A Different Perspective

Changing another’s habits is often beyond our control.

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