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“Everything you said, Ellie, it's true. I should be very angry. I was, for a time, but now I'm not. Now I've gotten past my own selfishness to where I've got to help her. See, when you're Plain, you don't put yourself forward. You just don't do it, because that would be Hochmut–puffing yourself…” quote by Jodi Picoult
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““Everything you said, Ellie, it's true. I should be very angry. I was, for a time, but now I'm not. Now I've gotten past my own selfishness to where I've got to help her. See, when you're Plain, you don't put yourself forward. You just don't do it, because that would be Hochmut–puffing yourself up–and the truth is there's always others more important than you. So Katie, when she hears others telling lies about her and this baby, she won’t want to fight back, or stand up for herself. I am here to stand up for her.””

Jodi Picoult

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

True self‑lessness means putting others first, even when pride tempts us to act for ourselves.

In simple terms: Self‑lessness outweighs pride.

Key Takeaway

Practice humility and support others.

Themes

humility self‑lessness pride support

Mood

empathetic determined

Type

narrative motivational

When to use this quote

  • family conflict
  • advocacy
  • personal growth
  • mentorship

Key Concepts

ethics psychology interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should you prioritize your own needs?
  • How do you recognize healthy humility?
A Different Perspective

Self‑sacrifice can lead to burnout if not balanced.

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