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But Lily pushed on. “Why do you think that is, that you…

“But Lily pushed on. “Why do you think that is, that you love these people you don’t know?” Adri shook her head. “I don’t. I’m just curious.” Lily shrugged. Offhandedly, as they were leaving the room, she said, “Maybe it’s because you’re invisible to them. Maybe that’s why you let them in.” She…” quote by Jodi Lynn Anderson
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““But Lily pushed on. “Why do you think that is, that you love these people you don’t know?” Adri shook her head. “I don’t. I’m just curious.” Lily shrugged. Offhandedly, as they were leaving the room, she said, “Maybe it’s because you’re invisible to them. Maybe that’s why you let them in.” She tapped on the wall on her way out, as if for good luck. “It’s less scary that way.””

Jodi Lynn Anderson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A character suggests that loving strangers feels safer because they cannot see or judge you, making intimacy less frightening.

In simple terms: Loving unknown people feels safer because they cannot see you.

Key Takeaway

Embrace vulnerability with trusted strangers.

Themes

vulnerability trust intimacy

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

narrative conversational

When to use this quote

  • making new friends
  • online communities
  • support groups
  • therapy sessions

Key Concepts

psychology social perception fear of judgment

Questions to Reflect On

  • What makes unknown people feel safer?
  • How can we balance openness with self‑protection?
A Different Perspective

This view may overlook the value of deep, known relationships.

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