I once had a patient who used to practice the most…
“I once had a patient who used to practice the most horrible tortures on himself, and when I asked him why he did such things, he said, 'Why before the world does them.' I asked him then, 'Why not wait and see what the world will do?' and he said, 'Don't you see? It always come at last, but this way at least I am master of my own destruction.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A patient chooses self‑harm to feel agency, believing the world will eventually cause pain anyway.
In simple terms: Self‑harm as a way to control suffering.
Seek healthier ways to regain control.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- crisis moments
- personal reflection
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do people feel self‑harm gives control?
- What alternatives can replace self‑destruction?
The patient’s logic may ignore alternative coping strategies and support.