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“I once had a patient who used to practice the most horrible tortures on himself, and when I asked him why he did such things, he said, 'Why before the world does them.' I asked him then, 'Why not wait and see what the world will do?' and he said, 'Don't you see? It always come at last, but this…” quote by Joanne Greenberg
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“I once had a patient who used to practice the most horrible tortures on himself, and when I asked him why he did such things, he said, 'Why before the world does them.' I asked him then, 'Why not wait and see what the world will do?' and he said, 'Don't you see? It always come at last, but this way at least I am master of my own destruction.”

Joanne Greenberg

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A patient chooses self‑harm to feel agency, believing the world will eventually cause pain anyway.

In simple terms: Self‑harm as a way to control suffering.

Key Takeaway

Seek healthier ways to regain control.

Themes

self‑destruction agency psychology pain control

Mood

somber reflective empathetic

Type

interview psychological philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • crisis moments
  • personal reflection
  • support groups

Key Concepts

existentialism coping mechanisms mental health

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do people feel self‑harm gives control?
  • What alternatives can replace self‑destruction?
A Different Perspective

The patient’s logic may ignore alternative coping strategies and support.

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