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And so I'm me again, Leo. Thanks to the example of a…

“And so I'm me again, Leo. Thanks to the example of a five-year-old. I'm hoping you wouldn't want it any other way. Not that you weren't flattered, right? I mean, to have a girl two thousand miles away going to pieces over you, weeping at the mere memory of you, losing her appetite, losing herself…” quote by Jerry Spinelli
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“And so I'm me again, Leo. Thanks to the example of a five-year-old. I'm hoping you wouldn't want it any other way. Not that you weren't flattered, right? I mean, to have a girl two thousand miles away going to pieces over you, weeping at the mere memory of you, losing her appetite, losing herself and self-respect - well, that's trophy enough for any guy's ego, huh?”

Jerry Spinelli

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator reflects on love, distance, and the emotional toll of longing.

In simple terms: Love and longing can be painful and ego‑boosting.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge the cost of distant affection.

Themes

love longing ego distance

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

literary personal

When to use this quote

  • writing
  • therapy
  • relationship counseling
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

psychology of attachment self‑esteem relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you value love over self‑respect?
  • How does distance affect emotional health?
A Different Perspective

Romanticizing pain can be unhealthy.

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