And it all came to pass, all that she had hoped, but it…
““And it all came to pass, all that she had hoped, but it did not fill her with rapture nor carry her away with the power or the fervor she had expected. She had imagined it all different, and had imagined herself different, too. In dreams and poems everything had been, as it were, beyond the sea; the haze of distance had mysteriously veiled all the restless mass of details and had thrown out the large lines in bold relief, while the silence of distance had lent its spirit of enchantment. It had been easy then to feel the beauty; but now that she was in the midst of it all, when every little feature stood out and spoke boldly with the manifold voices of reality, and beauty was shattered as light in a prism, she could not gather the rays together again, could not put the picture back beyond the sea. Despondently she was obliged to admit to herself that she felt poor, surrounded by riches that she could not make her own.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Idealized expectations often crumble when faced with reality, leaving a sense of loss despite abundance.
In simple terms: Dreams vs. reality cause disappointment.
Adjust expectations to reality.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career disappointment
- relationship expectations
- creative projects
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you reconcile dreams with reality?
- What can you learn from unmet expectations?
Idealism may blind one to practical constraints.