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Margot would say she belongs to herself. Kitty would say…

“Margot would say she belongs to herself. Kitty would say she belongs to no one. And I guess I would say I belong to my sisters and my dad, but that won’t always be true. To belong to someone—I didn’t know it, but now that I think about, it seems like that’s all I’ve ever wanted. To really be…” quote by Jenny Han
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““Margot would say she belongs to herself. Kitty would say she belongs to no one. And I guess I would say I belong to my sisters and my dad, but that won’t always be true. To belong to someone—I didn’t know it, but now that I think about, it seems like that’s all I’ve ever wanted. To really be somebody’s, and to have them be mine.””

Jenny Han

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker reflects on the deep human desire for mutual belonging and intimate connection with loved ones.

In simple terms: People crave being truly known and owned by others.

Key Takeaway

Seek genuine, reciprocal relationships.

Themes

belonging family identity love

Mood

nostalgic hopeful intimate

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • romantic relationships
  • friendship circles
  • parent‑child bonds

Key Concepts

attachment interdependence selfhood

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who do you truly belong to?
  • How do you balance belonging with personal autonomy?
A Different Perspective

Belonging can become codependent, risking loss of self.

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