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“...Many years ago he had taken the passion he felt for Susan and folded it in half, so he no longer had a drowning, helpless feeling when he glimpsed her beside him in bed: her ropy arms and soft, generous ass. Then he'd folded it in half again, so when he felt desire for Susan, it no longer…” quote by Jennifer Egan
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““...Many years ago he had taken the passion he felt for Susan and folded it in half, so he no longer had a drowning, helpless feeling when he glimpsed her beside him in bed: her ropy arms and soft, generous ass. Then he'd folded it in half again, so when he felt desire for Susan, it no longer brought with it the edgy terror of never being satisfied. Then in half again, so that feeling desire entailed no immediate need to act. Then in half again, so he hardly felt it. His desire was so small in the end that Ted could slip it inside his desk or a pocket and forget about it, and this gave him a feeling of safety and accomplishment, having dismantled a perilous apparatus that might have crushed them both.””

Jennifer Egan

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator describes progressively diminishing desire, turning it into a manageable, harmless feeling.

In simple terms: Desire is reduced to safety.

Key Takeaway

Control and compartmentalize desire.

Themes

psychology relationships self‑control

Mood

introspective thoughtful

Type

literary analysis psychological insight

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • personal introspection
  • mental health therapy
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

emotional regulation desire attenuation coping mechanisms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does diminishing desire affect intimacy?
  • Can safety replace fulfillment?
A Different Perspective

Suppressing desire may stifle passion.

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